Here's his story & the video from the local TV station...
MCKINNEY, Texas -- Matt Budge worries his time is short. A month ago the 36 year-old found out he was dying of a rare form of cancer. He’s scrambling to move his family with relatives in Utah.
But when he tried to break his lease at his McKinney apartment, four months early, he says the complex told him he would owe thousands in fees and rent. “For an apartment complex like this, $9,000 is not a whole lot of money. But for us that's a huge amount of money,” said Budge.
Included in that $9,000 bill: $3200, two months in future rent, and then thousands more in fees. And even items, like re-imbursing the complex for a $75 credit given after a water leak.
He says his numerous appeals remain unanswered.
“We had the bishop of our congregation contact them and try to appeal to their sense of compassion and explain the situation, nothing there. It’s like talking to a wall. They express sympathy and say there's nothing we can do,” said Steve Buys, friend of the family.
The complex is holding them to the letter of the contract, and not doing much talking about it.
The Budge’s are trying to focus on Matt’s health. For now they’re relying on friends, and their faith.
“Our future is in the hands of the Lord, not in a lease. But we would like to see them do the right thing,” said Crystal Budge.
Video = http://www.kvue.com/news/state/stories/032908kvuecancerapartment-mm.12598a49.html#
I have to think that Barack Obama must understand that, besides smashing all the rules of the tired old "conventional wisdom", he is helping so many of us to see that the first steps in changing the way things are is refusing to buy into the idea that we are hopeless & powerless & refusing to relinquish the real power symbolized by the three little words, "Yes, We Can!".
This video shows how Obama's campaign & his message have moved even the kids in a tough Bronx, New York school to become more engaged in the world around them & to start thinking--maybe for the first time in their young lives--that Yes, THEY Can do great things!
The video is over 13 minutes long, but it's worth every second.
Read this on CNN.com (http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2008/03/28/cafferty-age-a-bigger-factor-in-election-than-race-gender/) today, and I needed to share...
While the Democrats sweat it out over how voters perceive race and gender in this election, maybe it's time for the Republicans to take a look at how Americans feel about electing a 71-year-old man.
If John McCain wins, he will be the oldest person ever to serve a first term as president. And a new survey out suggests that the public might have more doubts about voting for someone of McCain's age for president than they would for an African-American or a woman.
The NBC News/Wall Street Journal poll shows72% of those surveyed say voters are ready to elect a qualified black candidate, 18% say they're not.Meanwhile, 71% say Americans are ready to vote for a woman, 20% say they're not. But only 61% say the voters are prepared to vote for a person over 70, while 29% say they're not.Not exactly encouraging numbers for McCain and the Republicans.
The Senator-Who-Would-Be-President will have his chance to discuss timely political issues with Barbara, Whoopi, Joy, Sherri & Survivor-Loser-John-McSame-Cheerleader Elizabeth Hasselbeck this Friday when he is the guest of ABC's The View.
I'll lay odds that the GOP's Far-Right Mommy Of The Year winner is just chomping at the bit to make sure that as much of the conversation revolves around Jeremiah Wright as possible. I'm sure she'll push as many Hillary buttons as possible too, for good measure. She's gotta keep the Democrats' in-fighting going right along so Dubya's grandpa-protégé can conserve his strength for November.
In case you were not aware, CNN is reporting (http://money.cnn.com/2008/03/17/pf/taxes/rebates_payment_schedule/index.htm?postversion=2008031716) that the 2008 Economic Stimulus Payment that the federal government is sending out to most taxpayers should actually be sent out no later than May 16, 2008, for those who filed their 2007 federal taxes electronically. If you filed the old-fashioned way (i.e., through the US mail), depending on the last 2 digits of the Social Security number of the taxpayer (or, for married couples, the Social Security number for the primary taxpayer listed on the return), and if you qualify for the stimulus payment, it could be as late as July 11, 2008 before the check is sent out to you. The link above shows the schedule, so you can determine when your check will be sent.
Also, the IRS has created an Economic Stimulus Payment Calculator (www.irs.gov/app/espc) which will provide you the amount of your refund (maximum is $600 for single/head of household taxpayers but generally no less than $300, as long as you qualify; maximum for married couples filing jointly is $1,200, but generally no less than $600, as long as the couple qualifies). When using the calculator provided, make sure you have a copy of your 2008 return, which will have the info you need to determine your Stimulus Payment. The calculator will also tell you, depending on the numbers you plug in, if you qualify for the rebate. Generally, for single or head of household taxpayers, if your tax liability was at least $3,000 in 2007, you'll qualify for the maximum. REMEMBER ALL OF THIS IS DEPENDENT ON THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE FILED & THE I.R.S. HAS PROCESSED A 2007 TAX RETURN BY THE TIME THE CHECKS ARE DUE TO BE SENT OUT.
If you're like me, you'll probably blow your refund on a couple of tanks of gas. I know, I know, I'm just a wild man.
"Not only is another world possible, she is on her way. On a quiet day, I can hear her breathing." Arundhati Roy, Indian writer & activist
I have long been a fan of Garth Brooks. Obviously he's been blessed with a beautiful singing voice, but if you've ever seen a concert of his, you know he does nothing half way. He packs a lot of bang for the concert-goers buck, for sure!
One of my favorite songs from one of my most favorite singers is "The Change". I have included the video & lyrics below. Garth came out with this song shortly after the horrific 1995 bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building in his home state of Oklahoma in which 168 men, women & children lost their lives. Most of the scenes in this video are from actual news footage filmed that day.
"The Change" makes such a simple yet profound statement. In the midst of the morass in which the world seems to be engulfed now, it's sometimes hard to think that one person can make things better. Even if you try, the myriad voices around you seem to do all they can to convince you that, as Garth sings, "It's like trying to stop a fire with the moisture from a kiss". From my own personal experience, it's easy to be discouraged when you see that so much has gone undone & so much harm needs mitigating. You couldn't be blamed for succumbing to the naysayers & sinking into the "every man (or woman) for him(her)self".
But Garth's song hits the nail on the head. I believe that every small work any of us does to help another or every burden we help to make lighter for someone else probably won't change the planet. That's just the truth. When we give of ourselves in whatever way we may be able, maybe we're not doing it with the expectation of bringing great change to a weary world in desperate need of change. Maybe, in the most unselfish sense, we do it for ourselves. Maybe it helps to remind us that we're not really cynics after all. Maybe those good deeds (great & small) serve to prove to ourselves that, in spite of all that divides & separates us, we are all still interconnected. Maybe we have underestimated the value & the power of the human touch where those in need are concerned. Maybe some good deeds don't always get punished. Maybe what appears to one person to be but a small act of kindness has the potential to change the life--or least the day--of the person on the receiving end of that kindness. Maybe giving or doing what we can is our own personal way of keeping alive for yet another day the radical inside that dares to dream the biggest dreams & to hope for something more. Maybe, as Garth sings so beautifully in this song, we really "do this so this world will know that it will not change" us.
Maybe it's true. Maybe it's not meant for me or you to change the whole world, but I firmly believe that wecan change our little corner of it!
Lyrics One hand Reaches out And pulls a lost soul from harm While a thousand more go unspoken for They say, "What good have you done, By saving just this one? It's like whispering a prayer In the fury of a storm."
And I hear them saying, "You'll never change things And no matter what you do it's still the same thing," But it's not the world that I am changing. I do this so this world will know That it will not change me.
This heart Still believes That love and mercy still exist While all the hatreds rage and so many say That love is all but pointless in madness such as this It's like trying to stop a fire With the moisture from a kiss.
And I hear them saying, "You'll never change things And no matter what you do it's still the same thing," But it's not the world that I am changing. I do this so this world will know That it will not change me.
As long as one heart still holds on, Then hope is never really gone.
I hear them saying "You'll never change things And no matter what you do it's still the same thing," But it's not the world that I am changing. I do this so this world we know Never changes me.
What I do is so This world will know That it will not change me.
Newly-single GWM who is (trying to be) more than "just" gay, and white and male. Still learning & still trying to determine what makes me, me after "living" the first 3/4 or so of my life in the closet. I am discovering, little-by-little, that the answer to Cher's musical question, "Is there life after love?" is "Apparently so...". That answer, however, comes with an important codicil: it doesn't mean that it'll be easy or heartbreak-free; as the old Lynn Anderson song goes--none of us is "promised...a rose garden".
There are many little quotes, sayings, and other little bits of wisdom that have helped me to understand my life just a little better. A soupçon of which follows:
“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” --Maya Angelou
"It's not what you are that holds you back, it's what you think you're not." --Denis Waitley
To Mr. Waitley's point, I am also beginning to see that sometimes the greatest hindrance to a joy-filled life is the person living that life because we believe we don't deserve it...but we do...ALL OF US do.
